You may feel a mix of resentment, confusion, and fear. It’s common to feel "neglected" as your parents pour all their energy into the crisis.
Physical symptoms like stomach aches, headaches, or panic attacks are frequent indicators that the refusal is rooted in genuine distress rather than simple defiance. Week 2: Identifying the Root Cause 30 days with my schoolrefusing sister
In the early days, the refusal often looks like "laziness" or "stubbornness" to an outside observer. You might experience daily screaming matches or find your sister completely unresponsive, buried under her covers. You may feel a mix of resentment, confusion, and fear